frustrations of flirting
"If I'm overtly flirting with someone, they've already been friend-zoned." - Annie Flirting is fun, there's no doubt. Flirting with someone who flirts back is even more fun. But Annie has a point - it's easiest to flirt with someone you don't really like "that way." When you know someone is just a friend, it's easy to be a little outrageous, because there's no risk. You're friends, and you're unlikely to spoil that friendship with some silly flirting. But when it's someone you like? Whole 'nother story. I called another friend today to pass the time on my long drive home, and she brought up the same topic. Why is it so hard for us to flirt with someone we like? I think there are two reasons. One, and this applies to everyone, is the risk. When flirting with someone whose interest you desire, you have something to lose. This could be your one chance to prove how interesting you are and convince them th...